India Day 1

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Walking through the Chandni Chowk market in Old Delhi, carefully dodging rambling rickshaws and incessantly honking cars.  The smell of urine, fresh and invasive, battles with the smoky and polluted air for my immediate attention.  All around me, the vibrant colors of humanity, incapable of discretion, are displayed as freely as the sparkling rows of saris which provide an elegant back drop to the thrilling madness.  With feeling, breathing awareness I practice opening my heart to exactly what is.

Old men, weary from years of hard work and even harder living, desperately attempt to lure passerby's to their shop.  The protective mother in me winces as I watch a family of four whiz by on a single motorbike. The father navigates the fast moving and overcrowded streets while his dirt covered little boy straddles the gas tank in front of him and his trusting baby girl sleeps soundly across her mothers lap behind him.  Breathe.

Masses of men with piercing eyes, unapologetically stare as they parade by like hungry schools of fish.  A young girl with a gigantic grin eagerly runs up to shake my hand while her girlfriends giggle in awed delight.  Gawky teens in blue jeans and turbans quietly lean on each other between carts of vegetables and piles of rotting trash and watch.   A trembling man holds out his hand hoping for rupees while I feel the all too familiar pang of guilt for not knowing how to help.  Breathe.  

Just outside of a colorful temple, the sweet smell of carefully prepared prasad offers a welcome break from the onslaught of offensive odors.   Beautiful ruby roses and bright orange marigolds are strung together and ready to be offered as gifts to the gods.  An elaborately dressed young bride prepares to dutifully fulfill her dharma.  

Just in the nick of time, I manage to squeeze between a goat and a broken down auto rickshaw with a thin man asleep in the back, to avoid getting hit by the tall white tourist bus forcing its way down the street.  I look into the shiny windows and see a row of faces, eyes wide and jaws dropped, gazing out from their safe distance at the exotic world before them.  

A tiny woman with sad eyes and unshakeable faith, silently prays.  

Nobody skips a beat as they pass by the man lying dead at the side of the road. They simply step around him and go about their day.  Now and then a well-educated woman with a wrist full of gold bangles catches my eye and knowingly smiles.  I take another deep breath and gratefully notice that I too am smiling.  

Utterly in love with the unabashed honesty of this place. Every moment is another opportunity to experience the wild and authentic chaos of the conditional realm, all pulsing perfectly with the breath of the infinite.  

Just the Beginning

Saturday, September 29, 2012
You know those times in life where EVERYTHING seems to fall perfectly into place and you have no doubt that you are EXACTLY where you are meant to be, doing exactly what you are meant to do? I am having that experience now as I return home from one of the most powerful weeks of my life.

Surrounded by the majestic beauty of the California redwoods, I was blessed to study with the utterly brilliant Chameli Ardagh (the founder of Awakening Women Institute), who is absolutely one of the most incredible, open and real women I have ever met. She is passionately bringing together communities of conscious, feeling, awakening women all over the world. Along with 19 other women I laughed, cried, caressed, roared, tickled and prayed my way to a deeper understanding of the divine feminine.

I am returning to Boulder with a full heart, a clarity of purpose and a profound desire to share the magic of what has been revealed to me with the women here. I feel as if I am being pulled into current so strong and vast that I vacillate between moments of sheer terror and feelings of utter exhilaration. Seeds that were planted years ago are now effortlessly coming into fruition. Doors that I thought had been long closed are reopening wider than I ever dreamed possible. For the first time since my kids were small, I have a vividly clear sense of vision and purpose. Simultaneously I am pulsing with sweet songs of gratitude and a wild roar crying, “It’s about freaking time!”

I finally feel ready to take bigger risks and offer more of the women’s work that I believe in so fully. In the women's temple we met each other in the place beyond stories, personality, differences and drama. It was like being washed in sweet grace over and over and over again. Mask free and raw we encouraged and welcomed one another to awaken past our limiting beliefs and old habits of closure. Every day I felt my fears dissolve a little more. This is what I want to help bring into our community. This is what I want more of in my own life.

The most typical form of women’s circles is that we all sit around and listen to each other talk about our lives. While it often feels good to be heard, we can sometimes leave group feeling a little depleted, overwhelmed and like nothing has really shifted. In a temple group we show up to practice consciously. We spend much more time in the place beyond words. We dance, we sing, we touch and truly hold one another. I felt so completely filled up and inspired from this experience that I knew I would face the rest of my life from a totally different place.

So now I return home, still riding roaring waves of energy and limitless grace. I am literally overflowing with a fierce passion unlike any I have ever known and THIS is just the beginning.

Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for.

-Joseph Campbell

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